I certainly have not had that several besties in my lifetime, i started seeing my first bestie when I was still in college, and my nice friend and I ended up chopping up about a year after graduation, but my second bestie started seeing me when I was only 25.
My buddy and I dated for 3 years before my nice friend and I finally started to drift apart.
I was the one who ended up chopping up that relationship once my nice friend and I both weren’t blissful any longer, however, it wasn’t for nothing because I learned a little bit about myself while dating that guy, however and it allowed me to focus my efforts on finding an even better relationship the next time. However, my most recent relationship ended as well after a few years of drifting apart, however the last bestie had issues with my temperature preferences at evening. He loves to sleep in a warm home with just a sheet on the bed, while I like to sleep in a cold home with heavy blankets. He would consistently complain whenever he was staying over at my apartment, and after months of this, I decided I couldn’t take it any longer. He was consistently asking me to turn the a/c down in my apartment when he was there, however now I am looking for a up-to-date partner who shares my same temperature preferences. I guess this is a truly crucial aspect of any affectionate relationship. A lot of times couples don’t get along when it comes to Heating as well as A/C temperature preferences. It’d be truly nice to find a guy who also wants the a/c turned on low at evening with the warm blankets on the bed. Is it so much to ask?