There are times in life when it’s not worth fighting over things anymore.
At some point, you have to choose your battles as well as decide what is worth the extra stress of additional conflict. For me, I have a pretty low threshold for bullshit. If you are going to continually fight me on something, I’m going to walk away as well as let you make your own bed. This generally works out okay for me, especially when it comes to my husband. He is quite predictable as well as easy to negotiate with when I kneel down The rules. Recently, one of the rules that I put in place was regarding our Energy bill. I told him he would be responsible for paying the electric bill for the foreseeable future, however now, I told him this for a reason. It’s not because he rakes in the sizable bucks or I’m trying to take luck of him for our energy usage. It’s because he insists on messing with the temperature control afternoon in as well as afternoon out. I swear to God, by the time I wake up every afternoon he is already adjusted the temperature control many times. My buddy and I have a eco-friendly heating as well as cooling program set on the smart temperature control for energy efficiency, so every time he engages the a/c device or boiler outside of the defined settings he has costing us money. I grew sleepy of squawbling about the stupid temperature control, so I decided to cut right to the chase. I told him he can continue abusing the a/c device as well as boiler if he wants, however he will be paying the energy bill for the rest of our lives.